Loving Someone You Don’t Know

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Jhumpa Lahiri’s “Sexy” is a short story that follows a young American woman, Miranda, as she has an affair with a man named Dev while his wife is away visiting India for a few weeks. Miranda falls in love with Dev because he treats her well; better than she remembers her previous boyfriends to have treated her.

While Miranda and Dev are having their affair, Laxmi, Miranda’s coworker, tells Miranda about her cousin’s husband who left his wife for a stranger he met on an airplane. The husband’s affair devastated his wife and their young son a pain that only worsened when he left Montreal to live in London with his new girlfriend.

When Laxmi’s cousin comes to Boston, Miranda agrees to babysit her seven-year-old son, Rohin. During the day with Miranda, Rohin calls her sexy (a word that Dev would call Miranda). When Miranda asks Rohin what he thinks sexy means, he replies “It means loving someone you don’t know.” With that sad seven-year-old’s simple explanation, Miranda stops seeing Dev.

When I was introduced to this short story and told that it was about an affair, I didn’t really know what to expect. I definitely didn’t expect the ending. Lahiri told a heartbreaking story about a young woman looking for companionship while simultaneously telling us of the danger of “loving someone you don’t know.”

It seems like the modern world encourages us to love people and things we don’t know. We’re told to like specific people, ideas, and forms of entertainment without a reason beyond that they’re sexy, new, or novel. I’m not trying to say that popular is synonymous with poisonous, but I think that we should be aware of the things we are beginning to fall in love with–do we know them?

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Prompt: Can you write a 250-word blog post in response to Jhumpa Lahiri’s short story “Sexy?”

Title: Exploring Jhumpa Lahiri’s “Sexy”: A Tale of Identity and Transformation

Jhumpa Lahiri, renowned for her poignant narratives about the immigrant experience, captivates readers once again in her short story “Sexy.” In this evocative tale, Lahiri delves into the intricate layers of identity, highlighting the transformative power of cultural encounters and the eternal quest for self-discovery.

Set against the backdrop of a multicultural society, “Sexy” follows the life of a young Indian woman, Miranda, who embarks on a journey of self-exploration when she discovers a mysterious and alluring sari in her parents’ closet. This exquisite piece of clothing becomes a symbol of the enigma surrounding her heritage and the allure of embracing her roots.

Lahiri masterfully weaves themes of cultural identity, tradition, and self-acceptance throughout the narrative. As Miranda drapes herself in the sari, she undergoes a profound transformation. It’s not merely the fabric that adorns her, but a reconnection to her cultural heritage and a newfound sense of empowerment.

The story resonates with anyone who has grappled with questions of identity and belonging. It reminds us that our roots are an integral part of who we are, and embracing them can be a transformative experience.

Lahiri’s “Sexy” challenges readers to reflect on their own journeys of self-discovery. It encourages us to embrace our cultural heritage, recognizing that it is not just about clothing or traditions, but a connection to our past, a bridge to our future, and a vital component of our identity.

In “Sexy,” Jhumpa Lahiri takes us on a compelling exploration of identity and transformation. It serves as a powerful reminder that in the tapestry of our lives, each thread represents a unique aspect of who we are, waiting to be discovered and celebrated.

Picture by Shehran Syed